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"Everybody Says Don't"

In the Stephen Sondheim musical, “Anyone Can Whistle,” there is a song called “Everybody Says Don’t” – and it is a catchy number. The son...

"Graduation Day"

It is nice to be back in the blogging chair after a much anticipated (and much needed) vacation. Did I miss anything? Haha. Kidding. I ca...

"Into the Wild" - Charting Uncertainty During & After Divorce

Today, Vanessa and I are headed off to an overnight camping trip with our son. We will share a tent and "enjoy" (as much as one can) this...

"Coming in Hot" - Finding Your Landing Strip

I've been on trial for the last two weeks. It is a tough case. It has been in active litigation for almost five years. For the last two w...

The Royal Wedding and The Matrix of Marriage

This morning, the Anglosphere was in a collective moment of batshit crazy. Tweets, posts, radio and TV - there was a ubiquitous and speci...

Between the “40” Yard Lines

This will be brief. I have 45 minutes before I wake up our son and start the mad dash of breakfast, showering, dressing and remembering t...

The Consequences of Action

In medicine, an “iatrogenic illness” refers (loosely) to a malady contributed to or caused by the treatment or intervention employed by t...

Spring Cleaning - a Follow-Up

First, thank you to all who have been reading our posts, following us on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, and who have provided us with ve...

One Good Thing - Extending the Olive Branch

Reading Brendan’s recent post about Northern Ireland and the Good Friday peace agreement called to mind a court decision that I read rece...

Into the Light - Handling Adversity

Last night was the big Second Grade Spelling Bee at our son’s school. Despite the long hours of study and practice, unfortunately our lit...

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